We all can agree that in this generation, kids nowadays are adventurous, self-driven, adaptive, and very motivated. It is as if they already know what to do with their lives because they usually base everything on their experience. Most of the times, they are critical thinkers and are detail-oriented. However, there is no perfection, as always. There are certain things these young adults can’t seem to handle. There are times that their decisions fail them to the extent that it leads them to self-destruct. That is the reason why an expert or therapist wants to point out the youth’s growing issues.
Abuse – One of the primary problems that youths are facing is abuse. There is physical, emotional, mental, and sexual to be exact on the list. Most of these categories seem often hidden. At unfortunate events, some of it gets viewed by society as a norm. And what genuinely hurts is that youths are to blame for the cause of these abuses. People justify their actions in destroying young adults by pointing out that these kids deserve a beating, they know nothing about emotional control, they don’t get fully affected mentally, and that they need to have a sexual experience. “Many people who suffer from sexual abuse or sexual assault can also suffer long-term effects from the abuse,” shares John M. Grohol, Psy.D.
Bullying – If there is one thing that kids would wish never to experience, that is bullying. All the torments in constant bullying are unavoidable. It is as if there is no escape from the emotional and mental torture that other individuals do. The unfortunate part is nobody can seem to identify the issue. A lot of people ignore physical beating, verbal harm, and even online threat. These people appear stuck in the belief that kids are not capable of harming other kids. But the truth is, if there is the will of delivering damage to others, all individuals are capable of such devious acts. “Bullying is not only isolated as a childhood problem, but also affects adolescents and adults as well,” Kristen Fuller, M.D. wrote.
Drug And Alcohol Addiction – Youths are open-minded and adventurous. But when they feel out of control, they believe they can do anything. That is the reason why they often use drugs and alcohol as a validation of their confidence. That because they picture themselves as individuals who are free and independent, they are now allowed to try even the considered worst influential practices. And because these kids feel entitled with their rights, they would not care about what others would tell them.
Teen Pregnancy – Perhaps one of the most controversial things that kids are experiencing is teenage pregnancy. There are lots of problems that associate with its outcome. Yes, we can all agree that kids deserve a chance of finding and standing up for themselves. But the idea of allowing them to accept the responsibility will only make them realize everything that revolves around it is a burden. That is the reason why the majority of youth often end up in irresponsible parenting.
Peer Pressures – Since society is now allowing the youths to have their own lives and are now considering their actions as part of community development, these kids are more unrestricted. But the thing that separates them from the other youths is the peer pressures. It is where some young individuals are getting forced to blend in with society by other people around them. It often looks like freedom, but it is entirely a provocation of what other bad influence people would want these kids to follow.
Depression – It is the youth’s most hidden issue that scares nobody. There is the belief that emotional and mental problems don’t entirely matter because young individuals are more capable of resolving it within a period. That as long as these kids are willing and motivated, they can handle the emotional and mental illness. But what people don’t know is that these kids do not get exempted to any kinds of damages. The truth is, they are the receivers of the whole of it.
Self-Harm – Self-harm is the case where the youth find themselves craving for attention. “Research reports one in twelve teens, mostly girls, self-harm and ten percent of them continue to deliberately harm themselves well into young adulthood,” stresses Raychelle Cassada Lohmann Ph.D., LPCS. It is the youth’s way of saying they are not okay and that people should help them. But the problem with society is their blindness towards what is happening inside and often only looking from the outside. There is no consideration of trying to get to the root of their emotional issue and often judge these kids from physically harming themselves.
Suicide – The most underrated issue that people don’t want to talk about, not unless it already happened. It sucks that society’s way of approaching the youth is beyond everybody’s frustration. That even if these kids already scream their lungs out trying to ask for help, nobody would recognize. But when life is gone, the irony begins. People will suddenly become emotional about the loss.
Let’s take our time not only to observe but also listen. Our youths are not invulnerable. As adults, we must help, encourage, and motivate them to overcome their issues in life.